Groom gets cold feet, chickens out, decides he does not want to marry, flees the scene

Oh no! The groom has decided that he does not want to marry, after all. He leaves the marriage hall.
Outside the door, the horn players announce his exit.
The bride's family wants him to go through with the marriage. He takes a seat.
An umbrella is opened above him. He is showered with flower petals.
The flower petals bring a smile to his face.
After the parents of the bride wash and mark his feet, Soundarya's brother, Ganesh, takes the umbrella. Ganesh will also shower Anil with flower petals.
In a demonstration of her respect, Bhanu marks Anil's feet with tumeric powder.
Bhanu and Ravi team up to give Anil still another foot washing.
Will it work? Will Anil decide to stay and go through with the wedding? Maybe he should go to the temple and pray about it.
Reader Comments (2)
Well this is an unexpected twist. I thought every aspect was worked out before the wedding. Maybe a couples counseling would have been a good idea.
As traditional as it may be, this whole attitude of "I'll marry your beautiful daughter, but only if you beg me to" seems backward to me. Isn't the man supposed to court the woman and beg her to marry him???
The US is the US and India is India. Remember that Soundarya and Anil broke their own ground in this marriage, as it was a love union, whereas they had been expected to enter into arranged marriages, neither courting nor begging the other, but accepting the mates others had chosen for them. They still chose to marry within the comfort and context of their Hindu tradition and, unusual though it may be to American eyes, this is part of it.
Also, while my knowledge of India is very small, it is clear to me that it is nation steeped in ancient, deep, tradition that is forging ahead into the modern era at lightning speed. As such, many changes are taking place, including those governing the place of women and the relationship of men and women together. There are many entrepreneurs in India and they include women - Soundarya even, as she is starting up a teaching and tutoring business of her own.
So, as to the question you pose, I believe that India will work that out in its own way and own time, according to its own terms.