Farewell to Mabel Aiken - a kind, gentle and caring lady
This morning, I sit alone in a quiet motel room, yet in my head I hear hymns, sung the Iñupiaq way, and I feel a strong connection to many souls, who on this day will gather together in a church in Barrow to hold services for and pay their respects to a very dear lady by the name of Mabel Aiken. If it were at all feasible, I would be there with them, but it is not.
I wish that I had a picture of Mabel in my laptop computer so that I could post it here, but I do not. I do, however, have this picture of her husband Kunuk and many members of her family and crew at the edge of the lead, as they watch the approach of a bowhead whale.
When I took this picture, Mabel was not physically present, but she was still very much with her family and crew. Back on land, she was busily overseeing the base operations necessary to sustain them on the ice. Through the VHF radio, she kept constant contact and whenever they needed anything, she made certain it was ready to go, to be packed onto a sled and sent out. She cooked, she sewed, she prayed. She gave them encouragement.
She was not physically present on the ice, yet her presence could be felt at all times.
From this time forward, Mabel Aiken will no longer be present in the physical world, yet her spirit will be felt every day.
Mable was a gentle, kind, soft-spoken, caring woman who was always good to me and I am blessed for having had the opportunity to spend some time with her in this life.
To Kunuk, to all the Aikens and to all those who knew and loved Mabel - may The Creator be with you on this day and bring you comfort and solace, even at those moments when it may seem that comfort and solace cannot be had.
As you sing so beautifully and with such soul and passion:
God be with you, 'til we meet again...
I love you all.
To those readers who never knew her, just know that she lived and that she made the Arctic a warmer place and all the world just a little bit better than it would have been without her.
Reader Comments (6)
Bill, thanks for sharing this wonderful recognition and tribute to Mabel. I was sad to hear of her passing.
Beautiful Bill. Thank you for telling us about Mabel. She will be missed by ALL.
So sorry to hear of Mabel's passing... I bet she was quite a woman..
Bill..I have enjoyed catching up on your recent blogs and they are beautiful. This one is no exception! Your words are eloquent and your picture is so powerful in painting a beautiful picture of an incredible woman. I know she is smiling down on this entry:) Thanks for sharing. Kathy
may she RIP, thank you for sharing this with us
Thank you so much Bill for remembering the best wife, mother, mother in-law, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, sister in-law, aana, aunt, cousin and friend. She was known for her love for God, family, friends. We will carry her in our hearts and memories and she left a wonderful legacy and now, we must follow in her footsteps and although she had tiny feet, she left big footprints in our hearts forever. We miss her dearly and we thank everyone who came far and close to celebrate her life with love, prayers, songs, flowers, it seemed as if the food never quit? It reminded me of all the cooking mom did over the many years to feed the people of Barrow, it all came back in abundance. Mom reminded us to remember God's promise and that we should shout HALLELUJAH about it because we will see her again one day. Quyanaqpak and may God richly bless you Bill for capturing moments in time through your pictures and stories that would otherwise be lost. Lotsa love from Kunuk Aiken family in Barrow Ak.